I am so sick of hearing people bash other mothers during their time of tragedies and the time they need to be supported most. Accidents do happen every second. You can watch you kids every second never touch a computer or talk on the phone but they will and do still happen honestly are you gonna drag all your kids in the bathroom with you and lock the door every time you pee or poo or take a bath. How about while cooking dinner are you gonna chain them to the fridge so you know where they are? and god forbid you vaccuum or clean house you might not be able to hear them so you better dog leash them to your leg but honestly we cant watch them every second.
Now I can see if you dont know where your child is for 30 minutes or a hour yes then you might be a little bad but accidents usually happen with in less then 2 minutes of disappearing so Think about that that is a quick bathroom break or a quick throwing the laundry in or a quick popping the dinner in the oven. People really give us mothers a break we are awesome parents and accidents happen let us grieve and instead of bashing us why dont you be an angel and lend us your support and colendences. You are not GOD there for you dont have the right to judge!!! He is the only person allow to judge anyone and everyone. And for the ones that are wrong or bad he will judge them on their judgement day not you. You are suppose to LOVE THY NEIGHBOR!!!
Now I can see if you dont know where your child is for 30 minutes or a hour yes then you might be a little bad but accidents usually happen with in less then 2 minutes of disappearing so Think about that that is a quick bathroom break or a quick throwing the laundry in or a quick popping the dinner in the oven. People really give us mothers a break we are awesome parents and accidents happen let us grieve and instead of bashing us why dont you be an angel and lend us your support and colendences. You are not GOD there for you dont have the right to judge!!! He is the only person allow to judge anyone and everyone. And for the ones that are wrong or bad he will judge them on their judgement day not you. You are suppose to LOVE THY NEIGHBOR!!!
6 comments:
I agree!! Accidents happen so quickly. My son gave me a scare before. All I did was change the clothes from the washer to the dryer & I couldn't find him. I was only in the laundry room like a minute and then I was looking all over for my son. Luckily no tradegy came of this but...
Thanks for this post! It's so easy to pass judgement on others. I'm sure all mother's have lost track of their children for at least short periods of time. I remember when my daughter was a toddler and it only took a few seconds to eat a mushroom growing in the yard when I turned away. Thank goodness nothing bad happened to her!
great post. makes you think.
Very true..If something bad happened to our children, how easy for other people to say "But you are the mother!"
So true, it only takes a second.
Agreed! If you look up the show 'Bullshit' online they have an episode about bubble-wrapping our kids. It's still a lil. extreme for me but it raises some interesting points. One woman on it let her 10 year-old take the new york underground by himself! I'd have a heart attack and a half!
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